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  1. The Freedoms of Chastity

    September 1, 2018 marked 439 days that I have been locked in chastity. 

    It started out as a fun sex game, wearing my Holy Trainer for a few hours. Then a few days, and then weeks.

    I noticed changes taking place in my body and mind. They were so amazing and soul-satisfying that I decided to just stay locked for the rest of my life. Soon after that decision, I met my Master, so I am now locked for him, giving my chastity an even deeper meaning and commitment.

    So why would I decide to stay locked permanently?

    When I gave up orgasms, that energy showed up in other ways in my life. I felt a new energy all the time. I became more productive. I felt younger. I felt a new spiritual level had been attained. 

    My body lit up. Any touch became amazing. It is like the sensitivity of my other body areas was cranked up to the max, like never before. The slightest touch from my Master gives me intense pleasure that lasts for days.

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  2. The Traffic Light System

    anonymous asked:

    could you please explain how the safeword traffic system works??

    Red means stop. Stop NOW, no more discussion, consent is withdrawn, to continue would be an assault, a line has been crossed (too painful, something bad that wasn’t negotiated, etc.)

    Yellow means that you need a break or that something is too much, or that if the top continues then you’re going to “red” soon.

    Green means that things are going well, you like what is happening, more of this please, or even go a bit harder.It also allows the sub to enter into the spirit of a scene vocalising things like "No Sir", "Please stop" etc. without "meaning it. If the top is unsure whether the sub means it he or she can ask "what's your colour?" and if the answer is green or yellow, it can continue without breaking the scene.

    While a bottom might blur

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  3. How to clean your Ass before Anal Sex!

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  4. Ten Rules for Submissives

    1. Be patient! A potential top will let you know if he is interested in you or not. Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy someone who will take into consideration the realization of your fantasies. Don't expect your top to be able to turn on like a light switch. The timing must be right for both of you.

    2. Be humble. You may be God's gift to the world and the most sought-after prize in town, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunity to show how good you are. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for failure by developing expectations that you know you and your top can never reach.

    3. Be open. You can learn something about SM and about yourself from everyone into the scene, no matter how experienced or inexperienced they are, or how dominant or submissive they are. SM is a very personal art, and an "I already know
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  5. Ten Rules for Dominants

    1. Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive, you have no more right to order him around than does anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness go hand in hand.

      The sensitivity and awareness (or lack thereof) that you show in the real world is likely to be repeated in the playroom.

    2. Be humble. You may be God's gift to the world, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunities to show how good you are - and plenty of opportunities to make a fool of yourself. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for a failure by developing expectations that you know you can never reach.

    3. Be open. Although the top is classically considered to be the teacher in SM, you can always learn from your bottom, no matter how in
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  6. Temporary Neutering via Testicular Heating

    Ever wished your slave would stop performing irritating habits? Ever wondered if you could get your pup to stop complaining about your bad habits? In this advanced form of training, you can "mould" your dogslave into a pup that only wants to serve, doesn’t care about anything except you, and only looks forward to the next "heating". Follow these steps, and that pup will only care about two things, you, and when it’ll get the next "heating".

    Basically, this system allows you, the master, to control your dogslaves sex drive. Repeated "heating" neuters your dogslave to the point where all it wants is to serve you. The techniques described can be abused. When heating is in progress, your dogslave is extremely susceptible to suggestions and orders. CAUTION though, don’t go too hot. Extreme heating or "super heating" can burn, or even permanently damage your puppy.

    Materials Need

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  7. 12 Steps of Humility

    12 Steps of Humility

    Your decision to serve is a commitment to a life of humility. To reach the highest peak of humility, one must climb a ladder much like Jacob's, upon which he saw angels climbing up and down. Ascend the ladder by humbling yourself; descend by praising yourself.

     

    1. The first step of humility is prompt obedience. This obedience must be without fear, laziness, hesitancy or protest. Work done in a dispirited or grudging manner will go without reward, and may actually earn punishment.
    2. The second step of humility is the rejection of self-will and self-pleasure. Careless and self-serving ways have no place in your life. "Self-will has its punishment, necessity its crown." (Acts of the Martyrs)
    3. The third step of humility is obedient submission to your superiors in all things. You must believe that your superiors know what is best for you, and you must act accordingly.
    4. The fourth step of humili
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  8. Tips for Tops

    By BlondePete, used with permission.

    This is a page of a few tips and do's & don'ts for beginners - experienced BDSM guys will, of course, know all this (and the bits I've intentionally left out ;-). Everything is not necessarily the "Right" way to do it, but it works for me. Some things on this page aren't strictly true, but you'll find that out for yourself and, unfortunately, some things have to be learnt the hard way. Once you know what you're doing you won't need rules.

    Sorry if this spoils the spontaneity and excitement but there's plenty of time for that when you know what you're doing and you're with someone you play with regularly.

    When you start being a Top it's like being a learner car driver, you have to think of every action before you do it and it all seems hard work when you are an experienced driver/Topmost o

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  9. Tips for Subs

    By BlondePete, used with permission.

    Not much for you to do really - just lay there and have a good time! (Only joking)

    General Tips

    If you arrange a meet and can't make it phone and say so - 40% of subs don't turn up for one reason or another but it's only polite to get in touch - Word will soon get around if you're a time waster and it's a very small scene, most of the serious players know each other!

    If you commit to something in a scene try to see it through, nobody likes a sub who complains all the time, if you really can't take any more then say so, but it's always a good idea to say "Sorry Sir" even if it's not your fault.  You can mention something unexpected though, for example, if something isn't fitting right and is more uncomfortable than it's meant to be, ask for

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  10. Bondage - What is it?

    BONDAGE

    WHAT IS IT?

    Bondage is getting your kicks from restraining someone, or being restrained, with rope, metal, specialist gear (such as a Straitjacket or Handcuffs) or furniture.

    It is also known as -

    B&D (bondage and discipline/domination)

    BDSM (bondage and discipline/domination and submission, sadomasochism.

    Hanky code colour: Grey, or by rope or handcuffs, worn:

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