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Monthly Archives: October 2018

  1. Ten Rules for Submissives

    1. Be patient! A potential top will let you know if he is interested in you or not. Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy someone who will take into consideration the realization of your fantasies. Don't expect your top to be able to turn on like a light switch. The timing must be right for both of you.

    2. Be humble. You may be God's gift to the world and the most sought-after prize in town, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunity to show how good you are. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for failure by developing expectations that you know you and your top can never reach.

    3. Be open. You can learn something about SM and about yourself from everyone into the scene, no matter how experienced or inexperienced they are, or how dominant or submissive they are. SM is a very personal art, and an "I already know
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  2. Ten Rules for Dominants

    1. Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive, you have no more right to order him around than does anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness go hand in hand.

      The sensitivity and awareness (or lack thereof) that you show in the real world is likely to be repeated in the playroom.

    2. Be humble. You may be God's gift to the world, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunities to show how good you are - and plenty of opportunities to make a fool of yourself. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for a failure by developing expectations that you know you can never reach.

    3. Be open. Although the top is classically considered to be the teacher in SM, you can always learn from your bottom, no matter how in
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  3. Temporary Neutering via Testicular Heating

    Ever wished your slave would stop performing irritating habits? Ever wondered if you could get your pup to stop complaining about your bad habits? In this advanced form of training, you can "mould" your dogslave into a pup that only wants to serve, doesn’t care about anything except you, and only looks forward to the next "heating". Follow these steps, and that pup will only care about two things, you, and when it’ll get the next "heating".

    Basically, this system allows you, the master, to control your dogslaves sex drive. Repeated "heating" neuters your dogslave to the point where all it wants is to serve you. The techniques described can be abused. When heating is in progress, your dogslave is extremely susceptible to suggestions and orders. CAUTION though, don’t go too hot. Extreme heating or "super heating" can burn, or even permanently damage your puppy.

    Materials Need

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  4. 12 Steps of Humility

    12 Steps of Humility

    Your decision to serve is a commitment to a life of humility. To reach the highest peak of humility, one must climb a ladder much like Jacob's, upon which he saw angels climbing up and down. Ascend the ladder by humbling yourself; descend by praising yourself.


    1. The first step of humility is prompt obedience. This obedience must be without fear, laziness, hesitancy or protest. Work done in a dispirited or grudging manner will go without reward, and may actually earn punishment.
    2. The second step of humility is the rejection of self-will and self-pleasure. Careless and self-serving ways have no place in your life. "Self-will has its punishment, necessity its crown." (Acts of the Martyrs)
    3. The third step of humility is obedient submission to your superiors in all things. You must believe that your superiors know what is best for you, and you must act accordingly.
    4. The fourth step of humili
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  5. Tips for Tops

    By BlondePete, used with permission.

    This is a page of a few tips and do's & don'ts for beginners - experienced BDSM guys will, of course, know all this (and the bits I've intentionally left out ;-). Everything is not necessarily the "Right" way to do it, but it works for me. Some things on this page aren't strictly true, but you'll find that out for yourself and, unfortunately, some things have to be learnt the hard way. Once you know what you're doing you won't need rules.

    Sorry if this spoils the spontaneity and excitement but there's plenty of time for that when you know what you're doing and you're with someone you play with regularly.

    When you start being a Top it's like being a learner car driver, you have to think of every action before you do it and it all seems hard work when you are an experienced driver/Topmost o

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  6. Tips for Subs

    By BlondePete, used with permission.

    Not much for you to do really - just lay there and have a good time! (Only joking)

    General Tips

    If you arrange a meet and can't make it phone and say so - 40% of subs don't turn up for one reason or another but it's only polite to get in touch - Word will soon get around if you're a time waster and it's a very small scene, most of the serious players know each other!

    If you commit to something in a scene try to see it through, nobody likes a sub who complains all the time, if you really can't take any more then say so, but it's always a good idea to say "Sorry Sir" even if it's not your fault.  You can mention something unexpected though, for example, if something isn't fitting right and is more uncomfortable than it's meant to be, ask for

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  7. Bondage - What is it?



    Bondage is getting your kicks from restraining someone, or being restrained, with rope, metal, specialist gear (such as a Straitjacket or Handcuffs) or furniture.

    It is also known as -

    B&D (bondage and discipline/domination)

    BDSM (bondage and discipline/domination and submission, sadomasochism.

    Hanky code colour: Grey, or by rope or handcuffs, worn:

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  8. How to get your boy into Chastity

    How to get your boy into Chastity!

    If you want to develop a relationship with a male as your sub, this is the most potent thing you can do. Take away his manhood. Whether for a long term relationship, or a casual hookup buddy, this will consistently work….(as long as you hold the key). At first he will hate it and love it. And then he will crave it. Whether he is into kink or not. It will change his focus and he will hunger for more. Even a hardened Top will crave this new feeling. Make a bet with someone you like and then take him down his new path.

    1. Tell him why you want to place him into a chastity cage *”I want you to be your horniest around me"*.

    2. Start simple. I recommend a polycarbonate device.

    3. Put it on for him. Be careful and gentle. Don’t start out with uncomfortable pain. You want to integrate it seamlessly. The first time takes a while. If he has hair down there, leave it. He will discover he needs to shave on his own. Shaving will be his gift to you, if you want it.

    4. Put his clothes on and take him out somewhere where you can both see how it feels while walking, sitting etc. (If he has pain, take it off. You want to get him into chastity, not hate you. Try another device.)

    5. When you get home, take it off. Have him jack off for you. Then have him do it again. And again. At this point you should have no physical contact with him until he is caged.

    5. Have him put it on himself. This is usually the time he will bring up shaving. This is up to you. If you let him shave, do it right. Downward strokes. You also want that freshly shaved area dry and exfoliated to prevent razor bumps. (While you have his clothes off, try to sneak the extra key into his wallet for emergencies etc.)

    5. Tell him he will be in it for three days. That’s just enough time to drive him crazy. All he will think about now is his dick and how horny he is.

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