Monthly Archives: November 2018
First of all, stop searching for "your" slave. You will always have a biased view of how this slave should be and the risk that you will miss him because of your biased view.
I know this is easy to say but try to enjoy your time as Master without a slave.
Meet slaves with no ulterior motives and no preconceptions, try stuff you are interested in and learn more about dominating different kinds of slaves.
Start with sessions and build it up: step by step at the time
The next step is that you should rethink your idea of finding a "24/7 slave"! To have a natural slave who lives the BDSM lifestyle is the Champions League! You will NEVER start in the champions league! First, you start with meeting the slave in a session. When it was great you meet him on a regularly base. You create a bounda
Since the very beginning, I keep my slaves naked. It is for me the most proper attitude for holding a slave. In my point of view, there are benefits holding your slave naked. Naked means for me that the slave is only wearing (locked) cuffs on his wrist and ankle. That is a very important point for me: Cuffs are on the one site a clear "slave" sign. To be naked does not really indicate the slave "status" to me and cuffs are a clear sign.
On the other hand, cuffs are extremely useful! I can tie up my slave any time I want because of the cuffs. This is a huge benefit!
First of all to hold your slave naked is primarily a
Sirs and subs reading this, this is my love letter to chastity.
The first three weeks are always the hardest.
The better the orgasms were prior to being locked up, the harder these first few weeks are. All you can think about is how great it felt to nut and how much you want to feel that rush again. During the day you find yourself easily disarmed when you see an attractive man. Average men suddenly become more handsome. Sometimes strong flushes of horniness come without warning and keep you trapped in it’s a vicious cycle of naughty daydreaming. During the day you can distract yourself so you make it through. But at night when all you have are your thoughts you’ll struggle to sleep. And these thoughts keep you staying in your cage, balls boiling. Some nights are especially hard and you struggle with thoughts of unlocking without permission and cumming. But you always tell yourself to be a good sub/slave and you find the strength to overcome your urges.
After the first month, everything gets a little easier. You recognize
I don’t understand the point of locking up. What does this do? Why is this attractive? Not trying to judge but trying to understand why the gusto for “caging” a dick.
Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do :
Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dick. He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it, he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick, it is now controlled by the keyholder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not even be able to see it. It’s emasculating.
Not being able
I am a submissive.
I find pleasure, joy, and fulfilment from being
submissive to my Master in a loving relationship. I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong individual, with firm views and a clear concept of what I want out of life. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.
I look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never am I more complete than when He is with me. I know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul with His strength and wisdom. He is everything to me, as I am everything to Him. His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me. Only in serving my Master do I find complete freedom and joy.
His punishments are harsh, but I accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind. If He desires my body for pleasure, I shall joyfully give it to Him, and take pleasure myself from knowing that I have brought Him happiness. However, the pleasures of the flesh are but one facet of any relationship. The love, the trust, the sharing,
Naming your dog says as much about the Owner as it does about the dog. Depending on whether your dog is a pet, a companion, a working dog, or a slavedog, the name you give him conveys an image to him and to those who meet him.
Many Owners choose to name their dogs with given human names - Jeffpup or Jackpup for example. Other choose a name that is strictly a dog's name. The choice is up to the individual Owner and must suit the individual dog.
For those of you who have yet to name your dog, or for those of you as yet unnamed, here are some ideas...
ACE - ACHILLES - ACTION - ADMIRAL - ADONIS - AJAX - ALADDIN - ALASTAIR - ALCATRAZ - ALPHA - AMBASSADOR - AMMO - ANDROID - ANGUS - APACHE - APOLLO - AQUARIUS - ARES - ARGUS - ARIES - ASPHALT - ASTRO - ATLAS - ATOM - ATTICUS - ATTILA - AUGUSTUS - AUSSIE - AUSTIN - AXLE
BACCHUS - BACH - BACI - BADGER - BAILEY - BAJA - BALBOA - BAM-BAM - BAMBINO - BANDANNA - BANDIT - BANDITO - BA
September 1, 2018 marked 439 days that I have been locked in chastity.
It started out as a fun sex game, wearing my Holy Trainer for a few hours. Then a few days, and then weeks.
I noticed changes taking place in my body and mind. They were so amazing and soul-satisfying that I decided to just stay locked for the rest of my life. Soon after that decision, I met my Master, so I am now locked for him, giving my chastity an even deeper meaning and commitment.
So why would I decide to stay locked permanently?
When I gave up orgasms, that energy showed up in other ways in my life. I felt a new energy all the time. I became more productive. I felt younger. I felt a new spiritual level had been attained.
My body lit up. Any touch became amazing. It is like the sensitivity of my other body areas was cranked up to the max, like never before. The slightest touch from my Master gives me intense pleasure that lasts for days.
could you please explain how the safeword traffic system works??
Red means stop. Stop NOW, no more discussion, consent is withdrawn, to continue would be an assault, a line has been crossed (too painful, something bad that wasn’t negotiated, etc.)
Yellow means that you need a break or that something is too much, or that if the top continues then you’re going to “red” soon.
Green means that things are going well, you like what is happening, more of this please, or even go a bit harder.It also allows the sub to enter into the spirit of a scene vocalising things like "No Sir", "Please stop" etc. without "meaning it. If the top is unsure whether the sub means it he or she can ask "what's your colour?" and if the answer is green or yellow, it can continue without breaking the scene.
While a bottom might blur