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  1. How to find your (natural) Slave for the BDSM Lifestyle.

    Stop searching

    First of all, stop searching for "your" slave. You will always have a biased view of how this slave should be and the risk that you will miss him because of your biased view.
    I know this is easy to say but try to enjoy your time as Master without a slave.

    Meet slaves with no ulterior motives and no preconceptions, try stuff you are interested in and learn more about dominating different kinds of slaves.

    Start with sessions and build it up: step by step at the time

    The next step is that you should rethink your idea of finding a "24/7 slave"! To have a natural slave who lives the BDSM lifestyle is the Champions League! You will NEVER start in the champions league! First, you start with meeting the slave in a session. When it was great you meet him on a regularly base. You create a bounda

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  2. Tips for Tops

    By BlondePete, used with permission.

    This is a page of a few tips and do's & don'ts for beginners - experienced BDSM guys will, of course, know all this (and the bits I've intentionally left out ;-). Everything is not necessarily the "Right" way to do it, but it works for me. Some things on this page aren't strictly true, but you'll find that out for yourself and, unfortunately, some things have to be learnt the hard way. Once you know what you're doing you won't need rules.

    Sorry if this spoils the spontaneity and excitement but there's plenty of time for that when you know what you're doing and you're with someone you play with regularly.

    When you start being a Top it's like being a learner car driver, you have to think of every action before you do it and it all seems hard work when you are an experienced driver/Topmost o

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  3. Tips for Subs

    By BlondePete, used with permission.

    Not much for you to do really - just lay there and have a good time! (Only joking)

    General Tips

    If you arrange a meet and can't make it phone and say so - 40% of subs don't turn up for one reason or another but it's only polite to get in touch - Word will soon get around if you're a time waster and it's a very small scene, most of the serious players know each other!

    If you commit to something in a scene try to see it through, nobody likes a sub who complains all the time, if you really can't take any more then say so, but it's always a good idea to say "Sorry Sir" even if it's not your fault.  You can mention something unexpected though, for example, if something isn't fitting right and is more uncomfortable than it's meant to be, ask for

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  4. Bondage - What is it?

    BONDAGE

    WHAT IS IT?

    Bondage is getting your kicks from restraining someone, or being restrained, with rope, metal, specialist gear (such as a Straitjacket or Handcuffs) or furniture.

    It is also known as -

    B&D (bondage and discipline/domination)

    BDSM (bondage and discipline/domination and submission, sadomasochism.

    Hanky code colour: Grey, or by rope or handcuffs, worn:

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