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Lifestyle

  1. How to find your (natural) Slave for the BDSM Lifestyle.

    Stop searching

    First of all, stop searching for "your" slave. You will always have a biased view of how this slave should be and the risk that you will miss him because of your biased view.
    I know this is easy to say but try to enjoy your time as Master without a slave.

    Meet slaves with no ulterior motives and no preconceptions, try stuff you are interested in and learn more about dominating different kinds of slaves.

    Start with sessions and build it up: step by step at the time

    The next step is that you should rethink your idea of finding a "24/7 slave"! To have a natural slave who lives the BDSM lifestyle is the Champions League! You will NEVER start in the champions league! First, you start with meeting the slave in a session. When it was great you meet him on a regularly base. You create a bounda

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  2. Why I keep slaves naked by Master D.

    Since the very beginning, I keep my slaves naked. It is for me the most proper attitude for holding a slave. In my point of view, there are benefits holding your slave naked. Naked means for me that the slave is only wearing (locked) cuffs on his wrist and ankle. That is a very important point for me: Cuffs are on the one site a clear "slave" sign. To be naked does not really indicate the slave "status" to me and cuffs are a clear sign.
    On the other hand, cuffs are extremely useful! I can tie up my slave any time I want because of the cuffs. This is a huge benefit!

    Devus Cuffs

    First of all to hold your slave naked is primarily a

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  3. Thoughts of a submissive

    I am a submissive.

    I find pleasure, joy, and fulfilment from being
    submissive to my Master in a loving relationship. I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong individual, with firm views and a clear concept of what I want out of life. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.

    I look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never am I more complete than when He is with me. I know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul with His strength and wisdom. He is everything to me, as I am everything to Him. His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me. Only in serving my Master do I find complete freedom and joy.

    His punishments are harsh, but I accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind. If He desires my body for pleasure, I shall joyfully give it to Him, and take pleasure myself from knowing that I have brought Him happiness. However, the pleasures of the flesh are but one facet of any relationship. The love, the trust, the sharing,

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  4. Human Pup Names - A few suggestions

    Dog Names


    Naming your dog says as much about the Owner as it does about the dog. Depending on whether your dog is a pet, a companion, a working dog, or a slavedog, the name you give him conveys an image to him and to those who meet him.


    Many Owners choose to name their dogs with given human names - Jeffpup or Jackpup for example. Other choose a name that is strictly a dog's name. The choice is up to the individual Owner and must suit the individual dog.

    For those of you who have yet to name your dog, or for those of you as yet unnamed, here are some ideas...

    ACE - ACHILLES - ACTION - ADMIRAL - ADONIS - AJAX - ALADDIN - ALASTAIR - ALCATRAZ - ALPHA - AMBASSADOR - AMMO - ANDROID - ANGUS - APACHE - APOLLO - AQUARIUS - ARES - ARGUS - ARIES - ASPHALT - ASTRO - ATLAS - ATOM - ATTICUS - ATTILA - AUGUSTUS - AUSSIE - AUSTIN - AXLE

    BACCHUS - BACH - BACI - BADGER - BAILEY - BAJA - BALBOA - BAM-BAM - BAMBINO - BANDANNA - BANDIT - BANDITO - BA

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  5. The Freedoms of Chastity

    September 1, 2018 marked 439 days that I have been locked in chastity. 

    It started out as a fun sex game, wearing my Holy Trainer for a few hours. Then a few days, and then weeks.

    I noticed changes taking place in my body and mind. They were so amazing and soul-satisfying that I decided to just stay locked for the rest of my life. Soon after that decision, I met my Master, so I am now locked for him, giving my chastity an even deeper meaning and commitment.

    So why would I decide to stay locked permanently?

    When I gave up orgasms, that energy showed up in other ways in my life. I felt a new energy all the time. I became more productive. I felt younger. I felt a new spiritual level had been attained. 

    My body lit up. Any touch became amazing. It is like the sensitivity of my other body areas was cranked up to the max, like never before. The slightest touch from my Master gives me intense pleasure that lasts for days.

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  6. Ten Rules for Submissives

    1. Be patient! A potential top will let you know if he is interested in you or not. Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy someone who will take into consideration the realization of your fantasies. Don't expect your top to be able to turn on like a light switch. The timing must be right for both of you.

    2. Be humble. You may be God's gift to the world and the most sought-after prize in town, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunity to show how good you are. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for failure by developing expectations that you know you and your top can never reach.

    3. Be open. You can learn something about SM and about yourself from everyone into the scene, no matter how experienced or inexperienced they are, or how dominant or submissive they are. SM is a very personal art, and an "I already know
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  7. Ten Rules for Dominants

    1. Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive, you have no more right to order him around than does anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness go hand in hand.

      The sensitivity and awareness (or lack thereof) that you show in the real world is likely to be repeated in the playroom.

    2. Be humble. You may be God's gift to the world, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunities to show how good you are - and plenty of opportunities to make a fool of yourself. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for a failure by developing expectations that you know you can never reach.

    3. Be open. Although the top is classically considered to be the teacher in SM, you can always learn from your bottom, no matter how in
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  8. Temporary Neutering via Testicular Heating

    Ever wished your slave would stop performing irritating habits? Ever wondered if you could get your pup to stop complaining about your bad habits? In this advanced form of training, you can "mould" your dogslave into a pup that only wants to serve, doesn’t care about anything except you, and only looks forward to the next "heating". Follow these steps, and that pup will only care about two things, you, and when it’ll get the next "heating".

    Basically, this system allows you, the master, to control your dogslaves sex drive. Repeated "heating" neuters your dogslave to the point where all it wants is to serve you. The techniques described can be abused. When heating is in progress, your dogslave is extremely susceptible to suggestions and orders. CAUTION though, don’t go too hot. Extreme heating or "super heating" can burn, or even permanently damage your puppy.

    Materials Need

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  9. 12 Steps of Humility

    12 Steps of Humility

    Your decision to serve is a commitment to a life of humility. To reach the highest peak of humility, one must climb a ladder much like Jacob's, upon which he saw angels climbing up and down. Ascend the ladder by humbling yourself; descend by praising yourself.

     

    1. The first step of humility is prompt obedience. This obedience must be without fear, laziness, hesitancy or protest. Work done in a dispirited or grudging manner will go without reward, and may actually earn punishment.
    2. The second step of humility is the rejection of self-will and self-pleasure. Careless and self-serving ways have no place in your life. "Self-will has its punishment, necessity its crown." (Acts of the Martyrs)
    3. The third step of humility is obedient submission to your superiors in all things. You must believe that your superiors know what is best for you, and you must act accordingly.
    4. The fourth step of humili
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